Resolved(?) last night and summarized by light of day - be a dishrag, a chameleon, but find a couple areas to be firm on. Let people decide you're an ass with opinions and not just set decoration. There are definitely areas where 'what's in it for me?' may be the correct answer. Also, things that matter must be statements, not questions or sort-ofs, or what-do-you-thinks. And Bristol (and certain actors associated thereto) needs to get the smeg out of my coping dreams. That was just *wierd*!!!